by jessazim | May 20, 2019 | blog
Last week, I wrote about the importance of prioritizing intimacy. Next, I want to discuss a second tenant of a healthy sex life – good communication – and how the Giver/Receiver exercise can help you and your partner improve in this area. Phase 2 – Communicating About...
by jessazim | Nov 13, 2018 | blog
Throughout my writings, I have discussed how people get stuck in a cycle of avoiding sex and why that happens. I have also offered some tools to make communicating with your partner easier. But sometimes just beginning the conversation is the hardest part. Broaching...
by jessazim | Nov 13, 2018 | blog
In last week’s blog, I discussed the difference between vulnerability and openness. By being open, rather than vulnerable, you can be honest, present, and authentic with your partner while still protecting your safety. First and foremost, you are responsible for...
by jessazim | Nov 13, 2018 | blog
In last week’s blog, I laid out two “rules of the court” for addressing issues in your relationship. Let’s look at another. Say no when you need to say no When used properly, no is a good thing. You each need to trust that the other is taking care of themselves, so...
by jessazim | Nov 13, 2018 | blog
New rules for relationships In last week’s blog, I defined sex as the physical expression of our innate drives for love, intimacy, and pleasure. With this definition in mind, I offer a few directions, or “rules of the court” for how to improve your sex life. These...
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