Exploring Eroticism

Exploring Eroticism

In several previous posts, I have written about the importance of being able to talk openly with your partner about your sex life. Whether you talk about your sexual history, the difficulties you’re having in your current relationship, or what your desires are,...
Be Selfish

Be Selfish

For the last few weeks, I have been offering my nine tenants of a happy sex life and how the Giver/Receiver exercise can help you practice them. Let’s get to number seven. Phase 7 – Being Selfish Most people are raised to believe that selfishness is bad. And it...
Access Desire

Access Desire

So far, I have reviewed two tenants of a successful sex life: prioritizing intimacy and communicating about sex. The third is accessing desire, and the Giver/Receiver exercise can help you here too. Phase 3 – Accessing Desire Good sex involves wanting. Desire is...
Make a request, but remain flexible

Make a request, but remain flexible

My last several blog posts have focused on how to make discussing relationship difficulties with your partner easier. I talked about how using “I” language and confronting yourself first can demonstrate to your partner that you are willing to take responsibility for...

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