by jessazim | Jun 10, 2019 | blog
Last week, I talked about how enjoying the journey, rather than focusing on the outcome, can help you have a happier sex life. Likewise, learning to stay present in the moment can deepen your connection with your partner and your enjoyment of the experience. Phase 5 –...
by jessazim | Jun 3, 2019 | blog
Continuing the discussion of the tenants of a healthy sex life, I want to talk now about enjoying the journey. The Giver/Receiver exercise is particularly useful in helping you stay more present and less goal oriented. Phase 4 – Enjoying the Journey Being attached to...
by jessazim | May 27, 2019 | blog
So far, I have reviewed two tenants of a successful sex life: prioritizing intimacy and communicating about sex. The third is accessing desire, and the Giver/Receiver exercise can help you here too. Phase 3 – Accessing Desire Good sex involves wanting. Desire is...
by jessazim | May 20, 2019 | blog
Last week, I wrote about the importance of prioritizing intimacy. Next, I want to discuss a second tenant of a healthy sex life – good communication – and how the Giver/Receiver exercise can help you and your partner improve in this area. Phase 2 – Communicating About...
by jessazim | Apr 22, 2019 | blog
Last week, I wrote again about playing your own side of the court and offered some ideas about using that premise to deal with issues of desire discrepancy. Now I want to offer a few other examples of how you can play your side of the court in working through issues...
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