Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Blog

Subscribe
The Nine Phases of Taking the Stress Out of Sex

The Nine Phases of Taking the Stress Out of Sex

In last week’s blog, I described my Giver/Receiver exercise for couples. The utility of this exercise is not just in the doing, but also in the reflection on what happened for you and the debriefing with your partner. This is a chance to begin making things different....

The Giver/Receiver Exercise

The Giver/Receiver Exercise

My goal with this blog is offer you examples, tools, and insights for improving your sex life. If you have followed my posts for the last couple of months, you have been prompted to have many conversations with your partner about your history and your sex life. You...

How to Play Your Side of the Court

How to Play Your Side of the Court

Last week, I wrote again about playing your own side of the court and offered some ideas about using that premise to deal with issues of desire discrepancy. Now I want to offer a few other examples of how you can play your side of the court in working through issues...

What’s on your side of the court?

What’s on your side of the court?

Over the last several weeks, I have tried to help you and your partner shed some light on your sexual struggles. I asked you to reflect on your personal histories and how your experiences with sex, love, conflict, and support have shaped the way you approach your...

What happens after sex?

What happens after sex?

Last week, I asked you and your partner to talk about what happens when you have sex. Next, I want you to discuss what happens after sex. What Happens After (and Between) Sex? When sex is a struggle, you may have more of an aftermath than an afterglow. Sometimes there...

What happens during sex?

What happens during sex?

In this series of blog posts, I am asking you and your partner to examine your patterns around sex. You discussed initiation and how you talk about you sex life. Now let’s look at what happens during sex. What Happens During Sex Itself? Let’s take apart what happens...

Featured Publications

Articles

Join my mailing list to receive information, resources, discounts and FREE access to Q&A webinars.

We use cookies to give you the best online experience. By agreeing you accept the use of cookies in accordance with our cookie policy.

Privacy Settings saved!
Privacy Settings

When you visit any web site, it may store or retrieve information on your browser, mostly in the form of cookies. Control your personal Cookie Services here.

These cookies are necessary for the website to function and cannot be switched off in our systems.

In order to use this website we use the following technically required cookies
  • wordpress_test_cookie
  • wordpress_logged_in_
  • wordpress_sec

Decline all Services
Accept all Services