It's a myth that you are supposed to have spontaneous desire for sex. Some people do, but others only feel desire after they've gotten aroused. This "reactive" desire is important! https://youtu.be/flSq1zVKCf8
Porn is not sex. It's entertainment. And as such, it's not the place to learn about how sex should go. https://youtu.be/kVirNn9edHI
We have so many ideas about how sex is supposed to work. The problem is that most of these are unrealistic and unhelpful. In this week's Just the Tip Tuesday, I talk about how to examine your expectations and why you'd want to. https://youtu.be/1AYrQpiVFsA
So many couples end up avoiding sex. They get caught in a loop of disappointment, avoidance, and pressure. https://youtu.be/_bXDrs4LPk8
When sex is working, it feels pretty important. When it isn't, it feels huge! https://youtu.be/rRCwqWo7Z3k
Couples come to me after marriage counseling and have made great strides in dealing with many issues. Except their sex life hasn't improved. What may be surprising is that it works way better in reverse! If you take on what needs to change to transform your sex life,...