Here are some resources for couples' therapy that isn't focused on sex.
Here is one place you can look for someone else who works with other issues than sex since my practice is not a good fit for you.
Psychology Today – general therapists
A couple other resources for you:
My free webinar for women with low desire, How to Want Sex Again, without it feeling like a chore, is available here.
A free pdf download, How to talk to your partner about your sexual concerns, is here.
You can join my mailing list here.