I work with people who are ready to address their sex life, and whose situation is appropriate for that.
Sometimes there are other things going on that really need to be addressed first, before a couple would be open/ready to do things to improve their sex life, including:
- recent (or recently discovered) infidelity
- high levels of conflict
- just now dealing with out of control sexual behavior (“sex addiction”) or sexual trauma that need to be dealt with individually
Are the two of you ready to work on your sex life?