I can’t be your therapist. That doesn’t leave you with nothing.
A therapy license only covers the states it covers, and mine covers two. You’ve also passed on coaching, which is fair enough. So here’s what’s genuinely available to you — including how to find someone good where you actually live.
What Intimacy With Ease actually is.
It’s the process I take couples through in my office, built into something the two of you can work through on your own schedule. Not a description of what’s wrong — a set of things to do about it. Because it isn’t therapy, it’s open to you wherever you live.
- Video lessons that walk through the process in order
- Homework and action steps for each stage
- Live online coaching calls, recorded afterwards if you can’t make one
- A private community of couples doing the same work
- Monthly hot seats, where one couple gets half an hour with me
It suits couples whose relationship is basically sound but whose sex life isn’t — where there’s goodwill between you, you can work as a team, and you’re both willing to look at your own part in it.
Free, and worth your time.
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How To Want Sex Again
My free webinar for women with low desire — on wanting sex again without it feeling like one more chore. Watch it here.
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The Better Sex Podcast
Weekly conversations covering the same ground I work on with couples. Listen here.
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My mailing list
Occasional writing on desire, avoidance and the things couples get stuck in. Join here.
If what you want is therapy, look here.
These are the two directories I’d send a friend to. Search your own state and read a few profiles before you call anyone.
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AASECT
The certifying body for sex therapists — the same certification I hold. Start here if the sexual side is the main thing. Search the directory.
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Psychology Today
The broadest directory of therapists generally, filterable by location, speciality and insurance. Search the directory.